One of the toughest things for an elderly person to accept is not being able to drive anymore. These words to her mean taking away her independence. My mom has dealt pretty well with having others drive her but she has her moments. In her mind, someday she will be better and be able to drive again. To this day, she will ask me when she’ll be able to drive again. It’s tough to reputedly tell he she won’t be driving again. In fact, I encourage you NOT to be the one who tells he she can’t drive, and then you will be the bad guy. Better to let the doctor or social worker do the talking. In fact, in a real tough situation, take mom to a Secretary of State office to take the driving test.
One major factor to consider is to sell her car and give her the money for her discretionary fund. Say her car sells for $2500. This money could be used on something else that could make her happy, like cloths, a trip or vacation, several beauty salon visits or a new household item. Hey, the car was just sitting there anyway! Out of sight, out of mind, right?
Taking care of an elderly parent can always be a struggle. You must devote a-lot of attention, time, and care to make them comfortable and happy. But you must also keep the stress out of your mind and your happiness in sight. Taking Care of Mom can help.
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Lesson Four: Mom Can’t Drive Any More.
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